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Gretchen Ronnevik

Gretchen Ronnevik

Teacher Notes

homeschooling

I’ve noticed that every year, we get asked the same question: “Are you almost done with school for the summer?”  which is almost always followed up by, “Or do you do school through the summer?”

This is a really hard question for me to answer.  I’m finding a “what grade are your kids in” starting to get tricky too.  I just have started saying the grade associated with their ages, since that’s what I think people are actually asking.  If I just go by standardized testing we do that just confuses people.  By which test?  Which subject?  I’m not a very concise person, even when it comes to normally simple questions.  It’s my one weakness.

First I feel the need to explain what our school looks like.

We write.  We write stories, dictation, copywork, and spelling.  Not all of them every day, but I try to get the kids writing at least something every day.
We read.  A lot.  We have a freakish obsession with books.  We read biographies and study history and myths and poetry.
We do math through worksheets, and we calculate prices at the grocery store and figure out how to double recipes.
We explore our world.   We identify birds that fly into our yard and we dig in the dirt.  We do science experiments and we grow a garden.
We do geography puzzles and play state capitol bingo.
We get together with friends and play games.
We play instruments and study languages.
We read the newspaper and talk about current events.
We stand in lines at the bank to wait our turn.
We paint masterpieces.

I’m pretty sure that most of these things are things that most parents who send their kids to more formal schools do, but our lines of school and home are so blurred. It’s not that my kids call me “teacher” during certain hours of the day, and “mom” in the evening and all summer.  I didn’t realize before Silje went to kindergarten that my kids were homeschooled (aka learning at home) up until then.  I thought we were deciding to homeschool a few years back, but in hindsight, we decided to go back to homeschooling.  We just didn’t realize it.  Like all aspects of parenting, it was something that we’ve grown into.

We still use a box curriculum, but not religiously.  Is the question, “Is your box curriculum done?” I’d have to say, “Sort of.”  Some subjects are done.  Some books aren’t.  We skipped about 3 books and didn’t finish one, but we’ll still probably come back to the ones we skipped, and we read an additional 10 or so that wasn’t part of the plan.  We’ve met my written goals for the year, so I guess we could identify that completion.  We’ll start a new box curriculum this fall with new books and new activities.

I know it sounds disorganized, but it’s really not.  We just do school by learning throughout the day.  Our laid out box-curriculum is part of that, but really only a fraction.  Some of it is formal and planned, and some of it is informal and spontaneous.  Most of my work goes into the planned part, and yet I think most of the learning happens in the spontaneous part.  Is a growing a garden less school than working on handwriting?  I don’t think so.  It’s all learning.

I will say that with the season, the structure of our days looks different.  We spend more time outside and the kids get a longer leash to explore as I’m not worried about their nose getting frostbite in less than 5 minutes outside.  We go fishing and camping.

We still talk about current events at supper.  We still do a ton of reading.  We’ll do less spelling and more gardening.  Latin doesn’t really get touched.  In the winter we’ll do more spelling and less gardening.  We probably won’t have time to study our history books this summer, but we’ll have the good weather to do some fun science experiments.  We’ll continue to identify birds and plants throughout the year.  We’ll still play the piano and we’ll still learn how to stand in lines at banks and grocery stores.  We’ll likely still do artsy things because the natives will riot if I take away the paints.

Silje and David will each spend a few days out at Bible camp.  I know some view that as a vacation, but they come home having days of intense learning.  It’s wonderful.  Elias will do preschool VBS, and of course the 2 older kids will do some “sports camp” to work on some team sports which is just the evenings for a few days.  We have lots of things planned.  Too much, if you ask me.

I’ll admit I stress less about “school” in the summertime.  I’d say we do more “unschooling” in the summertime, though I absolutely hate that term.  I know the concept of unschooling is letting learning happen naturally, but whenever I hear it I think of wild children and no learning.  It’s my own prejudice.  The word just doesn’t work for me.  I know it is described as unstructured learning, but I view our parenting as more structured.

So I guess the final answer is to say that my children do season-appropriate school year round.

It’s the most honest I can get.  We do more seat-work in the winter, and less of it in the summer.  Learning?  Structure?  That’s constant.  At least, that’s what I’m hoping.

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May 24, 2013 · 7 Comments

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  1. Lydia says

    May 24, 2013 at 2:00 pm

    I love this post! My daughter got the 3rd degree about school the other day. “Why aren’t you in school? Homeschooled? What grade? Did you “do” school today?” She was clearly confused. Part of what I love about our homeschool is that some days my kids don’t even realize we are doing school! So the school through summer thing is hard for me too…because isn’t every day, really, a school day? (also – where can I find state capital bingo? Sounds awesome!)

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  2. Mom says

    May 24, 2013 at 3:03 pm

    I love the term “seasonal-appropriate school year round”! It’s a life-long learning mentality.

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  3. Mandisa Chesser says

    May 24, 2013 at 6:03 pm

    I completely understand what you are saying about your method of “schooling”. I don’t think people realize that parents are their children’s first teachers anyway. Therefore, parents are teaching their children things all day long even when they are not aware of it and children are learning all day long even when they think they aren’t. It’s a wonderful thing.

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  4. Janette Haak says

    May 24, 2013 at 6:11 pm

    One year in early fall, we were on a family vacation/field trip. We had been studying about the early pilgrims, etc and my son was surprised that it was a real place and that you can still visit. So, being the wacky home school family that we are.. we went to colonial Williamsburg to walk thru history. I have always felt that life is an education, it’s what you do with it. Anyways… as we were walking thru one of the fields with a tour group, an elderly man starting asking questions about the kids and why they were not in school, etc.. at first I just gave him some pate answers, but he would not stop. Frustrated (at having to educate him) I finally said, “Excuse me, sir, but today we’re walking on some of the most historical grounds in the U.S. I could tell my children about it, but it won’t have meaning, but by coming here today, they have experienced it and they will remember it, that is what learning and life are all about, they’re intermingled. Enjoy your day.” Ladies, keep up the good work of helping your children live life and whatever they learn along the way is a bonus!

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  5. Sarah says

    May 24, 2013 at 10:00 pm

    I love this! My oldest is only three so these are times that are really formative for my opinions about how we are going to “do school” in formal ways and you described my hopes and plans precisely! I had an excellent home education that was similar to this philosophy and love incorporating learning through our days too -it’s so easy when you consider that kids are always curious about their world!

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  6. Katharine says

    May 28, 2013 at 11:40 am

    We almost never formally ‘do school’ but we ‘do life’ everyday. That’s the job I’m training them for so it seems the best place to spend our time.

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  7. Lisa Joy says

    May 31, 2013 at 6:05 pm

    Those are the exact same questions we are fielding right now (and actually the kids keep asking when we are going to be “done” with school). The answers you gave here are exactly the answers that I would have to give as well. We will continue to do some science experiments, lots of reading, exploring, etc through the summer. So we are really never “done” (learning takes a lifetime, doesn’t it?) although we also do less “paperwork” in the summer. 🙂

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