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Gretchen Ronnevik

Gretchen Ronnevik

Brownie Points

knitting, sewing

So, do you all remember that last year for Christmas, I made my 3 girls these little girly Miss Maggie rabbits?  They were made out of wool felt and had little country style dresses and knit wool accessories.    I nearly died from cuteness overload.  Knut and I try to give the kids at least one handmade gift for Christmas from one of us.  Last year, this was the girls’ handmade gift.  I was thinking of making them each some homemade socks this year but…

well, read on.

Let’s just be honest.  No one asked for them.  They weren’t on anyone’s wish list as they weren’t on any commercial and don’t have a t.v. series to go with them.  I just thought they were adorable and I wanted to make them, and of course I wanted them to love them.  And they did.  Each little girl dearly loves her rabbit.  Silje’s was named “Miss Maggie” and Solveig named hers “Posie” and Ingrid’s is “Rosie.”

Silje doesn’t usually care for old fashioned styled things like that, but learning how to sew herself, she seemed to genuinely appreciate the effort.  She oohed and aaahed for my benefit like a pro.  While I like antiqued, muted colors, she likes anything with a rainbow of bright colors, animal prints, and of course…glitter.

Well, the designer, Alicia Paulson, has added 4 more softie kits to her store this spring.  There’s now a fox, a deer, a mouse and a cat.  I’m just obsessed with them, and am already thinking I’ll make 2 of them for Solveig and Ingrid for this next Christmas.  Deciding which 2 to make will be tricky.  Anyway, I called Silje over to the computer to get her opinion.  I made this stupid remark:

“So, I know you’re almost 10 and all, and I know Miss Maggie is kind of old fashioned, and you’re probably not into this stuff and want something different, but the designer just came out with some more animals.  I was thinking of making 2 more, at least for the little girls for this Christmas.  Want to help me choose?”

She looked at me, with a shocked, sad expression on her face.  “You’re not going to make another one for me?  But I love my Miss Maggie!  I want another one!  There’s a cat?  I claim the cat!”

I love that she’s still my little girl.  And even though she doesn’t like old fashioned things normally, she actually, genuinely adores her gift, and is eagerly anticipating her next.

Either that, or she totally knows how to score the brownie points with me.

And, since the boys say I never make anything for them, I asked them if they wanted a softie.  The fox is my favorite new softie, but all the girls say they want the girl ones.  So I asked the boys if they would like a fox so I have an excuse to make one.  Elias gave an enthusiastic “yes!” as he plays “house” with the girls as often as he crashes cars with David.  But David said he didn’t want one.  Fair enough.  But now I’m wondering if it is okay for me to make one of these animals for everyone except David for Christmas, because I know he won’t play with one.  Stuffed animals have never been his thing.  He says he would rather get a car shaped pillow for his bed.

I feel like I’d totally be leaving him out by not making one, but I’m not going to buy a kit, and spend hours making him a toy he doesn’t want.  Well, I have a few months to figure out their Christmas gifts anyway.

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June 17, 2014 · 8 Comments

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  1. Shari says

    June 17, 2014 at 12:14 pm

    I was so excited to see the new kits and want to make the foxes for my two little boys. I’m like you in that I struggle with being practical and yet don’t want one of the children to feel left out. Could you make some kind of a car shaped pillow or car themed lap blanket for David? Still a homemade gift yet something he’ll love?
    Good luck!

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  2. Dawn says

    June 17, 2014 at 3:20 pm

    I agree with Shari–if you/David are sure about how he feels, make him something he will love. If you make him a softie and he never plays with it, it could be come a sore spot for either or both of you. (He gets a Christmas gift he specifically said he didn’t want; you see your hard work ignored in the corner). For me, it’s about respecting the differences in my kids (they never get the same things and I am learning not to feel guilty if I spend more on one than another as long as we give gifts that they will all enjoy).

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  3. Penny says

    June 17, 2014 at 4:10 pm

    Does he still do matchbox cars? I’ve seen some really cute matchbox-carrying rolls on pinterest, and when you completely unroll it, it becomes a road to drive them on. I agree with Dawn – been there, done that, doesn’t feel good for either party.

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  4. Susan Langager says

    June 17, 2014 at 7:55 pm

    OK, so I know it’s a lot of work, but if I were you, I’d make him one anyway, but not as a Christmas present per se. Tell him, that everyone (all the children) have one and that even when they grow up you want to be able to put them out at Christmas time as decoration so you wanted to have one that represents David even if he’s not going to play with it now.

    Just a thought, but that’s what I would be doing….. love you sweet pea!

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  5. Susan Langager says

    June 17, 2014 at 7:56 pm

    Oh, but also make him a car shaped pillow for his homemade present. (forgot to include this on my last comment.)

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  6. Mom says

    June 17, 2014 at 9:28 pm

    I think it’s sweet that Silje still wants a home made gift. That says a lot about how much she loves you!

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  7. Fran says

    June 18, 2014 at 11:47 am

    Thanks for telling us about Alicia Paulson’s works! a great grandbaby is coming, so I will make a rabbit, too. I think rabbit is still cutest………..Fran

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  8. Arizona Annie says

    July 29, 2014 at 10:59 pm

    Hi Gretchen, I saved your blog post about Miss Maggie while I was pregnant in the hopes that I would have a girl… and I did! I just ordered my Miss Juniper Kitty kit to make for Sophia for her first Christmas. I’m so excited! Thanks for having such a fun blog!!

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